Tips
For Breastfeeding in Public
Most mothers know
that breastfeeding is the most natural and healthy option for their
baby. The problem is that nowadays mothers need to work, shop, take
their other children places, and do a thousand other things; it’s
hard to always be in a private area when your baby is hungry. Social
norms make many women feel wrong feeding their children in public
areas, but don’t let this stop you. There are several steps you can
take to be discrete about feeding your child. You should also not
let people stop you from doing what’s best for your children.
You have every right to breast feed in public. In fact, many areas
have
laws protecting breastfeeding mothers. However, you should take
steps to respect the wishes of others and be discrete. Since many
places haven’t yet set aside areas for private breast feeding, you
may have to be creative. Here are some tips for discrete feeding:
• Wear clothing designed for breast feeding. While they make
special
clothing just for this purpose, or you can improvise or modify
clothes
yourself.
• If possible,
find a secluded area. If you can find a spare chair, that’s
great. A spare dressing room or hidden corner is even better. If
you are
in a restaurant, you can ask to be seated in a confined area or
simply be
seated near a wall and face your back to the crowd. If you can’t
find
anywhere else, you can always head to your car if you have one.
• Use a cover.
While many women use a baby blanket, you can be even more
discrete by wearing a jacket or large shawl to cover your baby.
• Practice.
While it may seem silly, the best way to learn to breastfeed
your child in public is to practice in front of a mirror while
feeding at
home. Try different positions and different coverings. This will
help you
know which positions are the best for feeding without showing
too much.
• Ask for
somewhere private. If you need to breastfeed at work, it’s not
unreasonable to ask for somewhere to do it. Many employers would
rather you
feed in a break room or secluded area rather than in the middle
of the
office. You can also look into laws in your area related to
workplace
breastfeeding.
While it’s normal to want to be respectful of other people, you do
have
rights. There are certain things you should never do.
• Never feed
your baby in a restroom stall. Outer sitting areas in
restrooms are fine. They are generally more comfortable for you
and your
baby; however, the actual restroom is not. Bathrooms are dirty
and usually
have an unpleasant smell. Adults don’t have to eat in restroom
stalls;
neither should your child.
• Don’t let
people intimidate you. No matter how discrete you are, it’s
inevitable that someone will still be offended that you choose
to
breastfeed. Inform people politely that you have a legal right
to feed your
baby in public. If you feel inclined, you can also add some of
the damaging
effects bottle feeding has on children. If you feel
uncomfortable saying
things to strangers, there are breastfeeding rights groups that
can provide
you with cards to hand out to people who object.
Breastfeeding may
be difficult, especially when you need to be in public,
but keep in mind that it’s the best option for having a happy,
healthy baby. And if it feels right for you and your baby then trust
your instincts.
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Most mothers know
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baby. The problem is that nowadays mothers need to work, shop, take
their other children places, and do a thousand other things; it’s
hard to always be in a private area when your baby is hungry. Social
norms make many women feel wrong feeding their children in public
areas, but don’t let this stop you.
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